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I recently discovered that my boyfriend of 2 years 'met' in person with a couple of ladies who were "internet pen-pals". He assured me that he did not have sex with them, he said he was just curious to 'see' those girls he had been talking to. He swears that it will not happen again because he knows that it upset me, and he loves "me" only...I decided to forgive him, but I don't know...there's been a breach of trust here, also he lied to me before (about other things), and I feel quite uneasy, I don't know if I'll ever be able to fully trust him again. Do you think I did the right thing or am I just a fool...? White Eagle Soaring: He apparently isn't ready to make a commitment and he needs more time to explore. Tell him that it would be OK with you to give him the freedom to look around some more. And you will, too. You really can't build a deeply intimate relationship without trust. Still, if he really loves you he will have very little time to "shop around." He will want to share every part of his life, every detail, every thought with you. That's intimacy. Sex is a joyous ecstasy that is possible when there is true intimacy. Otherwise it is an individual function between two or more people. You don't need to settle for that.. You can choose. Braveheart add-in from the woman's point of view: Bull pucky! It is not ok for him to look around. That means he doesn't really love you as he says he does and is just using you. Pull the plug before you have invested too much time, love and your life with him.
This is a crazy world. What can be done? Amazingly, we have been mislead. We have been taught that we can control government by voting. The founder of the Rothschild dynasty, Mayer Amschel Bauer, told the secret of controlling the government of a nation over 200 years ago. He said, "Permit me to issue and control the money of a nation and I care not who makes its laws." Get the picture? Your freedom hinges first on the nation's banks and money system. Freedom is connected with Debt Elimination for each individual. Not only does this end personal debt, it places the people first in line as creditors to the National Debt ahead of the banks. They don't wish for you to know this. It has to do with recognizing WHO you really are in A New Beginning: A Practical Course in Miracles, an informational study. Disclaimer - The posting of stories, commentaries, reports, documents and links (embedded or otherwise) on this site does not in any way, shape or form, implied or otherwise, necessarily express or suggest endorsement or support of any of such posted material or parts therein. I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it. (attributed to Voltaire), but certainly embodies what the 1st amendment of the constitution refers to as the freedom of speech 
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