Dating More Than One Person at a Time

"Am I wrong to go out with different guys in order to choose the right person?"  I'm a visitor from another country and new in this area (in US) then I decided to make friends with the people here. I met some Americans through internet and I decided to go out with them. I go out with them once in a while and always with different guys even though I still have contacts with all the guys who had been out with me. We only went out as friends and we did nothing more than just friends (not even holding hands, only talking). My reason for doing this is because I feel kinda homesick and lonely to be new in this area. Do you think that I'm wrong and will I look bad in front of people if I keep going out with different men? I want to have a steady but well it's a hard decision and I think by going out with different men, I will be able to find my true soul mate. What do you guys think about this?

White Eagle Soaring: Never is it wrong to date several different people. I am always looking for a different person, no matter who I am with.  You are looking for someone who is special, aren't you?  What other people think about this is totally irrelevant.  It's your life and you have the freedom to do with it as you wish.  Experiencing life is why you are here and through experience you can become a more mature person. If you are prepared to learn from your experiences, that is .  There are no mistakes because it is all for your learning and maturing as a human being.  Yours is a way of wisdom.  Take courage that your inner feeling is correct and one day you will soar with the white eagle.  Your soul mate is worth the time and patience.  Besides, there is never time wasted.  More on that....

And, by the way, make good use of your time alone to get to know WHO YOU are.  Discover the wonder of you and use your quiet times to go inside to find your peaceful center and your own power.  It's rather like dating yourself. 

I was fortunate to have been pulled free of my first marriage. We had come to a point at which we had little in common except a history and three kids. The youngest was in his last year of high school when I left. I had held on for 29 years, some of them OK and for most of them I was very much alone. I had several interesting relationships after that and through them I learned much about myself and my Earth journey.

The journey has been full of wonderment and marvels none of which I would trade for anything. I began my journey on the fast track when I finally drew up the courage to separate and eventually divorce the mother of my children. She now has a wonderful husband who delights in doing the same things she does. They are both fine human beings and happy with each other. I had grown in a much different direction, a path I didn't even know existed until it just showed up in my life.

I've discovered that the earth journey is about experiencing with near abandon, not with expectations but with an openness to live and learn. When I let go, many glorious experiences came to me. When you are ready to really let go, perhaps that will happen for you, too. I had worried about not being attractive enough to find another mate. That was quickly shown to be a self-imposed limitation. I was in my early 50's when I finally let go of my fears. I lived a part of my life then that I was not ready to live when I was young. I had discovered my inner song and danced life to a new rhythm and beat. I had also been forced to search for a new way to earn an income three years before the time came to let go the marriage.

The path was not smooth. I even married a Viennese woman who I thought understood the path of heart. That was the name she chose for both of us when we married. It felt perfect and then it quickly became very clear the name was very wrong for her. But even that was perfect because it was with her that I learned how to use the computer and the internet. She had three computers and internet access. She didn't understand the power of the internet and accused me of wasting my time learning. It became clear to me after a few months that I had to leave that marriage, too. On my way to Wuppertal, I studied a web-marketing course that has opened a whole new way to earn a living and share insights and wisdom with others.

Pieces of the puzzle finally came together when I met my mate on a personals site and we clicked right away. It would have been difficult to find each other had it not been for the internet. This world is very big place and the one with whom you are to do your next stage of learning might not be in your country or in your city. Perhaps s/he is in Australia or the USA. Now we have the means to bridge such chasms. At the bottom of the page there is a banner for Friendfinders.com. Click on it and go look at the awesome potential. Tell who you really are and how you would like to meet a compatible mate. Just remember that you are not too old. I'm sure that you will find that there are many very interesting mates of a broad range of ages, interests, talents and experiences who would love to meet you, one who has many interesting aspects, talents and experiences.

Who knows what tomorrow might bring. Clearly the important learning for me is to live freely without expectations, experience life fully and let spirit work without my ego getting in the way. The only commitment that is appropriate is to be yourself, let life happen, and listen to the quiet voice in the heart. If you commit to another, you are placing an expectation on the natural path of spirit. If it is to be, it will follow naturally that it will be. All you need to do is allow yourself to be natural and organic, a playful spirit being with feet on the earth and head in the stars with a heart negotiating the bridge between them. Or not. Even hope is an expectation. Let go of the framework of your world and soar free. If you wish.

Perhaps this can be of use to you, but I hold no expectations.

 

This is a crazy world. What can be done? Amazingly, we have been mislead. We have been taught that we can control government by voting. The founder of the Rothschild dynasty, Mayer Amschel Bauer, told the secret of controlling the government of a nation over 200 years ago. He said, "Permit me to issue and control the money of a nation and I care not who makes its laws." Get the picture? Your freedom hinges first on the nation's banks and money system. Freedom is connected with Debt Elimination for each individual. Not only does this end personal debt, it places the people first in line as creditors to the National Debt ahead of the banks. They don't wish for you to know this. It has to do with recognizing WHO you really are in A New Beginning: A Practical Course in Miracles, an informational study.

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